Psychology-based guides, each one written for a single situation, so the guide you open tonight is about yours and nothing else. Instant access, and it is yours to keep.
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LoveSync Pro was built by a group of psychologists, relationship analysts and relationship psychologists who kept being asked the same questions by people in the middle of the same few situations.
So we write one guide at a time, for one situation at a time. Each one explains what is actually happening in that moment, what to do first, and the words to use. None of it is general advice with your situation written on the front.
And each one is scored, so what you are doing becomes something you can measure rather than something you have to feel your way through.
The guides below are laid out by what is happening right now, not by size or price.
It arrives the moment you buy, and each one opens on what to do first rather than on a preamble.
Every guide has scored pages. You take one now and one later, so you can see what moved.
It names the most common moment, and it tells you which of the others is yours.
They have gone distant, and nothing you have tried has changed it yet.
Why closeness started costing them, what to stop doing in the next 72 hours, and which of your own moves is doing the damage. It opens with The Pressure Audit, twenty scored statements that tell you which guide to read first.
The two for the hour you are in right now.
It is late, the message is typed, and your thumb is over send.
Nine minutes with a timer, seven steps in order, and one scored page to take before bed. Sixteen pages for that one night.
You have decided to send something and you do not know what.
The actual words for the first message after silence, a weak signal and a short flat reply, each with the wrong version printed beside it, and one test every message has to pass before it goes.
Six guides, one situation each. Every one covers what that situation does and does not tell you, what is still available to you, fourteen dated days, and the words if you need them. $27 each. See all six →
Every route is closed and you are checking things that will never update.
What a block does and does not tell you, and the words ready in advance if something opens.
You cannot simply turn up, so a screen is carrying all of it.
What distance genuinely changes and what it does not, and what a screen can carry.
You have to speak every week, and the handover is never only a handover.
Keeping the practical apart from the personal, and a plan for the hour after the handover.
There is someone new, and every instinct you have is pulling hard.
What someone new does and does not tell you, and the words with no jealousy in them.
Every practical conversation has the relationship sitting inside it.
Handling what is shared without any of it becoming leverage, in either direction.
You cannot leave the room, so there is no distance to use.
Sharing a space without it taking the whole day, one room and one routine at a time.
For the month that starts the moment you send something.
You have sent something, or you are about to, and the month ahead matters.
Thirty dated days, the four shapes a reply can take and what each one is telling you, and the same twenty questions scored on day zero, day fifteen and day thirty, so movement is arithmetic rather than mood.
You want the whole month covered rather than the start of it.
The month mapped and dated, the four reply shapes, all six situations in depth, the second pull-away that can follow a good stretch, and a day-thirty read that gives you a direction.
For the part that is yours, and for making it hold.
Your evenings have gone and your mood is tied to a thread.
Twelve weeks with something to do in each one, an urge timetable you build in ten minutes, and The Steady Score taken at week 0, week 4 and week 12. Not one page in it about them.
Why this keeps happening, and which part of it is yours.
Five modules on video with a workbook each, two start-here pages, three bonuses and ten library guides. The Full Profile taken now and again at the end, both readings on one page.
They are talking to you again, and you want this one to hold.
The week the old pattern can return and what to do inside it, how to move at the pace of the slower person, The Escalation Ladder, and a check-in you run four times a year.
One guide, written from scratch around your own case.
You want it written around your case, rather than for a situation like yours.
You answer twelve questions in one email reply. A version of every part your situation needs is then written from scratch around your case and delivered as a private course. It is all written and delivered, so you know exactly what you are buying.
“I was completely lost. Every message I sent felt like it made things worse.
“The biggest change was realizing I wasn't “unloved”, I was triggering pressure.
“Now we're talking again naturally, without me chasing.”
“He replied "okay thanks" and I could feel myself preparing to read it twenty different ways.
“The Response Map showed me what the reply confirmed and what it could not tell me.
“I answered once, put my phone down and made dinner. Before this, those two words would have taken the entire night.”
“Every piece of advice told me what to text or when to text. None applied because my messages could not deliver.
“This guide started from the block instead of treating it like silence.
“For fourteen days I stopped looking for another route around it and measured what could actually move.”
Start with The Pull-Away Reset. It opens with The Pressure Audit, twenty scored statements that tell you which guide to read first. If your situation has something specific in it, children or distance or a home you still share, the Situation Guide for that one is written for exactly that.
The moment you buy. Everything is digital, it arrives straight away, and it stays yours.
No. Each guide is built to be opened at the part you need tonight, and the scored pages tell you where that is.
No calls and no appointments. Everything is written, and you read it in your own time, at your own pace.
Pick the moment you are in. The guide for it is already written, already scored, and ready to open tonight.
